You're conflicting liberal and conservative arguments in your posts.
You're ambiguous in what you want. You want to live your own life and pay minimal taxes, yet you want to be protected from foreign threats. Also, you want government control to be free from your life but you want an effective local government to participate in. How's a government going to do all of that without money, control, and laws?
Also, I doubt you'll take it cool when someone expresses dislike of who you are or what you believe in. If you can say things about other people and can't get in trouble, others can say things about you. "Ugly white fat redneck bastard" sound good to you?
Ash Fohx said all the other things I would of said.