@earnsimply.com: please consult http://wordpress.org/support/. As djbob mentioned, we can't provide a solution for software we are unfamiliar with.
@djbob: do we have wildcard subdomains enabled?
I use Filezilla 3.3.3 and can connect from the Quickconnect toolbar without further tweaking. I think you've botched the Filezilla settings. Try clearing/reseting the Filezilla config and then use the details I have listed.