Perhaps he should give more power to the other members of the staff.
This is possibly the best host on the internet, it has the space and bandwidth I need, and does not have insane restrictions.
I really don't want to leave, but it appears there is no other choice.
Edit:
I have closed my site temporarily, and it seems to not go down anymore.
You would think with the limited server resources users are given, that not much harm could be dealt.
Perhaps close sites that are not very active, and require them to re-login before it is back up?