After googling something different than normal, I read a post that someone posted on another forum that had the same message as mine just with the mysql server error code with it. Mine only showed the client error code so I couldnt search the mysql error code db for it. The real mysql error code was 2013 (or 2056 for the extended version) which is cr_server_lost. The explanation said that it lost connection to the myql server suring the query. After doing some more googling, I came up on an article that said it might be on one of the servers blocked ip list. In cpanel on both of the servers, I added the ip to the remote mysql acess list. It still shows the error.
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