Dumped bad...

[Korps Commander]

Which type of dumping hurts the most?

 

1) When someone tells it to you in the face, with no beating around the bush

 

2) When someone slowly lets the information out one piece at a time, until you have to figure it out on your own

[majazac]

I'd go for the second option... If you don't like somebody you should say that for once. It's better than to give unfounded hope

[awesomegamer]

yeah because you would stay with someone who doesnt truly want to be with you and then you realize it may have been a waste of time.

[Korps Commander]

Of course, if you say that you don't like somebody to their face, they will probably feel devastated, because you simply tell them and leave..................

 

When you let it out a piece at a time, at least the other person knows that you don't want them to feel bad.............

[eTronicGaming]

how about neither?

 

no the second one hurts worse... But I have found someone else now who I like, and we're talking... i may ask her out soon.

[HerLoss]

Numbah 2, definitly. I can deal with it if someone just tells me up front, but If I suddenly realize that I shoulda seen the signs or w/e, it just feels terrible knowing that I've wasted the extra week or month or half year or however long the signs have been there, when I oculd have been wasting my life on other self destructive activities.

[Korps Commander]

how about neither? 

You mean that you should just not tell the other person about how you don't love them anymore?

[majazac]

Guess he was saying that not being dumped it better

[awesomegamer]

neither as in not telling at all would be the worst.

it would just be a big lie being carried out.

[Kashif]

it happens to the best of us

[nilayz]

Yea... girls always like to be taken out.... I know of a girl who likes going out with me instead of her bf!!!

 

EDIT: Sorry, I meant to quote someone posted earlier... forgot to do that.